JAEL: Does the enemy of God feel safe in your tent?

JAEL - Judges 4 & 5 While attending a Ladies Retreat one year, there was an evangelist’s wife that had set up a book table. I scanned the books as I often do, and found a set of ladies devotional books that I have come to love. In one of the devotional books it discusses women who were only mentioned once in the Bible. After reading the book, I decided that my Sunday School lessons for the summer would have this theme, "If you could be known for one event, what one event would you be known for?" My Daddy taught me that you can learn something from everyone. It might a lesson on how to be, or a lesson on how not to be, but everyone can teach you something. Think about this. What if God decided to use you as an example to teach others, and He decided to record that example in his most precious Book? I wonder what kind of an example you would be? Would you be the one used for how TO be, or how NOT to be? For example, I will use King David. A tremendous man he was. The apple of God’s eye. In his youth he was known and a "lion slayer" & "giant killer" but in his adulthood he was known as "an adulterer." Sadly, though the death of Goliath was a great victory, it was all forgotten when he stole another man’s wife. The great thing about King David though was that he was not only a good repenter, he was a quick repenter. That is why he was able to continue to be the apple of God’s eye. Many people consider King David to be a great man, and perhaps he is their "hero of the faith" and there is nothing wrong with that. His quick and true repentance makes him a great example to us. I have a new "hero of the faith" and her name is JAEL. I absolutely love this woman’s story. I think it is because I can identify with it a little bit. You can read the story of Jael in Judges chapter four. Joshua has died by this time and the Israelites are continuing in their backslidden state and serving Baalim. (Judges 1:7) God sold them into the hands of their enemies to teach them a lesson. However, God continued to have mercy on them by providing them with judges that he would use to help deliver them. But each time a judge died they would return to their sinful ways and God would have to judge them again. (Like little children that cannot be trusted and must be continually supervised.) At this time, God has given them Deborah, a judge, and Barak. After reading this again and again, the thing I could not understand about the story was what was in this for Jael? Why did she kill Sisera? He was not after her. And why did Sisera pick THAT tent? I. Her Hospitality (Judges 4:18-20) " And Jael went out to meet Sisera, and said unto him, Turn in, my lord, turn in to me; fear not. And when he had turned in unto her into the tent, she covered him with a mantle. And he said unto her, Give me, I pray thee, a little water to drink; for I am thirsty. And she opened a bottle of milk, and gave him drink, and covered him." There was a "code of hospitality": 1.The guest was always invited in. 2. The guest was provided with food & drink. 3. The guest was protected by the host. 4. The guest never left empt handed. It would have been an outrage for her not to do all that she did for him. Hospitality means to receive or entertain strangers or guests without reward; to be kind and generous. In, Ro. 12:13 Paul instructs the believers to be "given to hospitality" and "distributing to the necessity of the saints." Hospitality can be a ministry all by itself. Jael made her guest feel welcome, secure and safe. II. Her Hostility (Judges 4:21) "Then Jael Heber's wife took a nail of the tent, and took an hammer in her hand, and went softly unto him, and smote the nail into his temples, and fastened it into the ground: for he was fast asleep and weary. So he died." It took me a while, and asking my pastor a lot of questions, to understand WHY she did this. What did Sisera ever do to her? The answer is in v. 11. "Now Heber the Kenite, which was of the children of Hobab the father in law of Moses, had severed himself from the Kenites, and pitched his tent unto the plain of Zaanaim, which is by Kedesh." Now, understand that hostility is not a bad thing, as long as you hate what God hates and stay under HIS control. This was some "super-human" strength right here! I mean, it had to be one feld swoop with that hammer. I’m guessing it wasn’t a little tap,tap,tap right? The Kenites were related to the Israelites through Moses. So Jael’s husband, Heber, had turned his back on their family and made leagues with the enemy. Maybe Jael felt ashamed of her husband for doing that. Maybe he embarrassed her in front of her family. Jael couldn’t fix this because she was the wife. Where Heber went, Jael went. How often do we align ourselves with the enemy and drag innocent people along with us? Think about this. Heber is off fighting a war and has left his wife unprotected. She is not with her family or his. She is out here in a tent that is pitched so that the ENEMY will know where to find the Israelites! That means SHE is in a tent that is a signal for the ENEMY to know how to find her FAMILY!!!! I can’t speak for other Mom’s but one of the most dangerous places for ANYONE to be is in between me and my children, or any of my other family members for that matter. Then I asked, but why THIS tent? Sisera went to this tent because Heber lived there. Heber was his friend now, which meant Heber had lost his testimony. Sometimes, your enemies become your "friends" because you are no longer a conviction to them. Heber had severed himself from God’s people. (Judges 4:11) "God often brings ruin on His enemies when they are most elevated." III. Her Heroism. (Judges 4:9 & 5:24-27) " Blessed above women shall Jael the wife of Heber the Kenite be, blessed shall she be above women in the tent." God already told Deborah that victory would come through a woman (4:9). So it was God that moved Jael to put that nail through Sisera’s temple. Now she could see her family again, and she was a hero! Wait! How do we know that she was free to see her family? Well, Judges 4:16 tells us that "there was not a man left." Heber died that day with the enemy that he has aligned himself with. How sad that Jael had to lose her husband due to his own sin. It is sad to think that we could lose our testimony and put innocent lives in danger. Jael was alone with the enemy because of her husband’s sin. I wonder how many lives we affect on a daily basis due to our sin? If you read on into chapter five you will find Sisera’s mother crying. Another person affected by Heber’s sin. Innocent people DO suffer due to our bad choices. Think about it. Does the enemy of God feel safe in YOUR tent? Jael had some good CHARACTER TRAITS that we can learn from: 1. Courage - to do what needs to be done. Take a stand! 2. Resourceful - use what you have to do the job. 3. Decisive - decide to right no matter what! (God will handle the rest.) 4. Hospitable - kind.....even to the enemy. 5. Hostile - hated what God hated.